lots of problem! dont be upset, there is always solution.

1. uninstall both bitlord and µtorrent, even go the c:\program files and see if the bitlord and utorrent are there. delete both the directories

2. restart your PC

3. install µtorrent, it is the best client ever.

4. do you use any router? then you have to forward port (open some ports for traffic). let me know the result.